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Andi O.'s avatar

I felt "lost" the day I decided not to be a doctor, in my 3rd year of college and had no idea what to do instead. But, now, at age 50, with a successful business and entering the exciting pre-retirement years (where we get to decide how to spend our days), I know that very few people knew what they were going to do early in life, and even fewer have been able to follow a straight-line trajectory in their work-lives.

This thought-proving post reminds me of a book that I have read and recommended countless times to friends and colleagues who are on a non-linear (i.e.: scribble-shaped) career path and wondering where they "screwed up"... "The Art of Work" by Jeff Goins. (link is below)

I just added this book to my Substack recommended book list because it is so relevant to business and the crazy journey that entrepreneurship and freelance work brings.

Bottom Line: feeling scattered is normal for people who actually give a shit about their lives and want to live the best ME they can. We learn along the way and build upon our experiences to make the next step possible.

p.s. In case you are curious, I linked to this book in my recommended book list here: https://giglfin.substack.com/i/157152247/growth-optimization-and-pivoting

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Roland Gruen's avatar

Oh, I feel that so deeply. And my experience in companies is: It's a really long way before the people around you, your superiors, your colleagues, recognize and acknowledge the richness that you have to bring certain issues forward in a big way.

And of course it is painful to be pigeonholed in the meantime. I have even experienced being unhappy in such a box because my interests have changed or evolved.

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